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About Renew the 'I do'

A very special Renewal of Vows Mass at St. Mary’s of the Assumption church in Glenshaw, PA was the spark that started this foundation. The amazing feedback we received from all of the couples who reaffirmed their wedding vows that evening, inspired us to build and support a community of fun, loving Pittsburgh married couples. We learned through our research that the two most important ways that couples can make their marriage thrive, is by praying together and consistently and intentionally going on date nights.
Renew the ‘I do’ offers unique and inspirational Pittsburgh date nights, quality marriage preparation, an annual renewal of vows Mass in addition to  We also gather and share the most important research, articles and resources from partner institutes studying marriage and family.

We are always striving for effective ways to inspire couples through each season of marriage. Please join us! 

Our Team

Our Team

Arlene Milon

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Co-Founder & Executive Director

"Nothing is more soul enriching to me than spending quality time with my family.  My faith is my rock and my light. Quality women’s health, nutrition and fitness are my passion. I am trusting the Holy Spirit to help me inspire others and lead this amazing foundation."

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The Milon Family

Drew Martier

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Event & Partnership Director

"I love to inspire couples through my music.  Seeing couples connect in a way they haven’t in a while is what drives my passion for this foundation. I am blessed to have been raised in a lively, large, musical family with parents who were happily married for 67 years."

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The Martier Family

Very Rev. Thomas W. Kunz, VE, JCD


Board President
Associate General Secretary/Vicar for Canonical Services

"It is a joy and honor to be able to help couples thrive in married life! I am thrilled to be a part of Renew the ‘I do’ to continue to support and build up marriages."


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Fr Scott Seethaler, OFM Cap. 

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Board Member
Priest, Speaker, Author 

"Throughout my priesthood, my priority was to help serve engaged and married couples.  I am delighted to be on the board."

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Fr. Scott Speaking at the RTID Fiesta

Michael J Deem, PhD


Board Member
Associate Professor, Human Genetics, University of Pittsburgh
Core Faculty, Center for Bioethics & Health Law
Director, Consortium Ethics Program, Department of Medicine


"It is a privilege to serve on the Renew the 'I do' Board. I look forward to encouraging and empowering engaged and married couples to live out their Christian mission within their families and to the world."


The Deem Family

Fr. Jason Charron

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Spiritual Advisor

“I am passionate about sharing God’s truth and love with those who suspect it the least.”

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The Charron Family

Fr. Adam Potter

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Spiritual Advisor

"How amazing that the Holy Spirit has led me to this wonderful team of people so passionate about marriage!  I am truly blessed to meet and speak to so many engaged couples on their marriage journey. I hope to inspire each of them to live out the sacrament of marriage as beautifully as God intended."

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The Potter Family

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